{"id":2733,"date":"2023-10-13T13:33:21","date_gmt":"2023-10-13T11:33:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/?p=2733"},"modified":"2023-10-13T15:47:22","modified_gmt":"2023-10-13T13:47:22","slug":"4x-giftig-gedrag-in-relaties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/en\/coaching\/4x-giftig-gedrag-in-relaties\/","title":{"rendered":"4x giftig gedrag in relaties"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2733\" class=\"elementor elementor-2733\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a904791 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"a904791\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8584459 elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"8584459\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm elementor-animation-grow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/en\/coaching\/4x-toxic-behavior-in-relationships\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-long-arrow-alt-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Do you prefer reading this blog in English? Click here<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3338925 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3338925\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Stel jezelf de vraag:<\/p><ul><li>Schiet jij wel eens in de verdediging als je kritiek krijgt?<\/li><li>Heb jij wel eens in een team gezeten waar geroddeld werd?<\/li><li>Ben je weleens ge<em>ghost<\/em> door een collega of een vriend?<\/li><\/ul><p>(als je niet weet wat <em>ghosting<\/em> is, scroll dan even naar het einde van dit blog)<\/p><p>Als je bovenstaande herkent, dan heb je ervaring met de 4 toxins die relaties schaden.<\/p><p>Giftige communicatie komt in elke relatie voor en is heel NORMAAL. Ook op de werkvloer. De handvatten in deze blog kunnen jou als leider, als collega of als partner een taal geven om te benoemen wat er op de onderstroom gebeurd. Daarmee voorkom je gedrag dat ondergronds gaat woekeren en de (werk) relatie verstoort.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c0392a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"6c0392a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d60ea60 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"d60ea60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"416\" height=\"244\" src=\"https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Picture1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-2736\" alt=\"People in business attire fighting, paper flying through the air\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Picture1.jpg 416w, https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Picture1-300x176.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Picture1-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 416px) 100vw, 416px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-822f84b elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"822f84b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Al vele decennia doet Dr. John Gottman onderzoek naar relaties. Met een zekerheid van wel 90% kan hij voorspellen of een relatie op de langere termijn overeind blijft.<\/p><p>In zijn wetenschappelijke onderzoek staat de vraag centraal: \u2018wat zorgt ervoor dat relaties werken of niet werken?\u2019 Daarvoor kijkt hij vooral naar hoe stellen of teamleden met elkaar communiceren, zowel verbaal als non-verbaal. Hij observeert de dynamiek en niet de inhoud.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-41ebce2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"41ebce2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">De 4 destructieve gedragingen van Gottman<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35237fa e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"35237fa\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-44816b6 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"44816b6\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1668af3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1668af3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Verwijten en kritiek<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ab9781c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ab9781c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text ); font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif; font-weight: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-weight ); text-align: var(--text-align); font-size: 1rem;\">Het aanvallen van je partners karakter, gedrag en persoonlijkheid,<\/span>&nbsp;meestal met de bedoeling om iemand gelijk te geven en iemand ongelijk.<\/p>\n<p>Voorbeelden: generalisaties<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;jij doet altijd&#8230;&#8221;,<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;jij doet nooit&#8230;&#8221;,<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;jij bent het type persoon dat&#8230;&#8221;,<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;waarom ben je zo&#8230;&#8221;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1ec7be3 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1ec7be3\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4fdc835 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4fdc835\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">In de verdediging schieten<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a1fd69 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9a1fd69\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Jezelf zien als slachtoffer en het voorzijn van aanvallen of verwijten van anderen op jouw fouten.<\/p><p><span style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text ); font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif; font-weight: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-weight ); text-align: var(--text-align); font-size: 1rem;\">Voorbeelden:<\/span><\/p><ul><li>Smoesjes verzinnen &#8221; het is niet mijn schuld&#8230;&#8221;, &#8220;Ik heb niet&#8230;&#8221;<\/li><li>Het oneens zijn en tegenspreken &#8220;Dat is niet waar, jij bent degene die&#8230;&#8221;, &#8220;Ik deed dit omdat jij dat deed&#8230;&#8221;.<\/li><li>Ja-knikken: beginnen met instemmen maar eindigen met oneens zijn<\/li><li>Zeuren: &#8220;het is niet eerlijk&#8221;.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c4046b e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1c4046b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-710c4ed elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"710c4ed\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Minachting<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bacf0da elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bacf0da\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Het aanvallen van je partners gevoel van eigenwaarde of door cynisme te ondermijnen of beledigen. Iemand respectloos behandelen in een poging hem te kwetsen of te beledigen.<\/p><p>Voorbeelden:<\/p><ul><li>Beledigingen en schelden<\/li><li>Vijandige humor, sarcasme of spot<\/li><li>Lichaamstaal en toon: sneren, met je ogen rollen, je bovenlip opkrullen<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a095cb9 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a095cb9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-566fef4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"566fef4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Opgooien van een stenen muur<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-82d878c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"82d878c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Zich terugtrekken uit de relatie om conflicten te vermijden en afhouden van contact.<\/p><p>Voorbeelden:<\/p><ul><li>Doodzwijgen, eenlettergrepig gemompel<\/li><li>Van onderwerp veranderen<\/li><li>Jezelf fysiek verwijderen<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e321bb6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e321bb6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Wat is jouw favoriete giftige gedraging als je je aangevallen voelt?\u00a0<\/b><\/p><p>Of heb je een of twee favoriete gedragingen die je herkent waar jij je schuldig aan maakt? (En het is normaal dat het gebeurd \u2013 belangrijk is de bewustwording, want dan kun je er iets aan gaan doen).<\/p><p>Persoonlijk heb ik me nogal eens schuldig gemaakt aan het opgooien van een muur, de negeer-stand. Oftewel <em>Stonewalling<\/em>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-186dd66 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"186dd66\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>En hoe werkt dit in teams? <br \/>En waarom doet dit ertoe op de werkvloer?<br \/>Wat maakt nou dat het ene team of die ene relatie wel succesvol is en het andere niet?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f86156d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f86156d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>De laatste 2 decennia heb ik me verdiept in onderwerpen vanuit de psychologie, leiderschap en coaching. Daarin geef ik trainingen aan teams en begeleid ik individuen in executive coaching programma\u2019s. Het werken met teams en organisaties houdt me scherp in wat mensen op de werkvloer bezighoudt.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-531b496 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"531b496\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ecf7eb7 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ecf7eb7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In het bijzonder vind ik het interessant om te werken leiders. Anno nu is er iets anders nodig in leiderschap. Leiderschap van binnenuit, persoonlijk leiderschap door zelfinzicht, bewuster zijn van blinde vlekken en verantwoording nemen voor je impact. Mocht je daar meer over willen lezen en een zelf assessment doen, bestel dan het boek <a href=\"https:\/\/www.managementboek.nl\/boek\/9789462722347\/kom-tot-de-kern-marijne-van-den-kieboom?affiliate=8091\">Kom tot de Kern<\/a> dat ik in 2019 schreef in opdracht van een uitgeverij.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-80c1df2 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"80c1df2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/managementboek.nl\/boek\/9789462722347\/kom-tot-de-kern-marijne-van-den-kieboom?affiliate=8091\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Horizontal_Book_Mockup_6-1024x655.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-2737\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Horizontal_Book_Mockup_6-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Horizontal_Book_Mockup_6-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Horizontal_Book_Mockup_6-768x492.png 768w, https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Horizontal_Book_Mockup_6-1536x983.png 1536w, https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Horizontal_Book_Mockup_6-2048x1311.png 2048w, https:\/\/www.marijnevandenkieboom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Horizontal_Book_Mockup_6-18x12.png 18w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59f0ef5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"59f0ef5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Team toxins<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-979bcfc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"979bcfc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Terug naar de 4 destructieve gedragingen. Deze kunnen ook voorkomen in werkrelaties met een collega of in een heel team. Ze worden dan ook weleens de <strong>4 team toxins<\/strong> genoemd.<\/p><p>Deze gedragingen doen afbreuk aan relaties. Ze ondermijnen de veiligheid en het onderling vertrouwen en zorgen voor erosie op de effectieve, respectvolle en waarderende werkvloer. En het gaat als een lopend vuurtje, vaak ondergronds.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7ecaeb0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7ecaeb0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Signalen van team toxins<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b760c5c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b760c5c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ol><li>Taken en projecten duren langer<\/li><li>Kwaliteit van werk. Zaken worden incompleet afgeleverd of onder de maat van verwachte standaard \u2013 want als gedrag onze productiviteit be\u00efnvloedt, dan kun je slechtere resultaten gaan verwachten.<\/li><li>Motivatie, betrokkenheid en teamgevoel zullen eronder leiden<\/li><li>Destructieve conflicten zullen toenemen.<\/li><li>En op z\u2019n slechts zal de stress toenemen, ziekteverzuim zal toenemen en uiteindelijk gaan de goeie mensen weg.<\/li><\/ol><p>Dus op tijd adresseren van deze 4 team toxins is een <strong>MUST<\/strong>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-312ee85 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"312ee85\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Aan de slag<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d4766c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d4766c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Download de leaflet hieronder en ga met je team aan de slag om toxins bespreekbaar te maken.<\/p><p>Of doe de opdracht met je partner of in je vriendschap. 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